I have some tough words to share with you today and for some of you, it will not be the easiest thing to read or accept. Believe me, if we are going to be successful in growing our confidence, we all may need to make a real positive change in our lives when it comes to embracing the spirit of complaining.
Complaining Does You No Good
I get it. It feels good to complain and let off a little steam from time to time. I’m not saying you should never complain and I’m not saying that there isn’t a time and a place when you should launch a legitimate complaint. What I’m trying to tell you is that it’s often a waste of time to whine and complain about your situation.
Complaining without action and a desire to bring about change does you no good and actually hurts your self-confidence. When you focus on complaining, you’re embracing the role of a victim and that’s not a powerful role at all. It’s a passive, accepting what’s...